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Strength in Ignorance

There was a young man who belonged to a certain Christian group. Almost all they believed in was in conflict with what other Christians believe. He stumbled on Billy Graham preaching on TV one day. He decided to listen and pick holes in the sermon of the “big guy.” This young man was very knowledgeable and could take on any “conventional” Christian. 

Billy Graham mentioned the concept of Trinity, and the young guy was happy to find a handle to take on the big guy. But then Billy Graham took a turn: he said that he did not understand Trinity though he believed in it! He explained that there’s just no way an ordinary man could completely understand the Almighty God.

“Arrgh! How is that possible?? The big guy doesn’t even understand what he believes in? We are taught to understand everything. Our tutors have all the answers!”

So he turned off the TV, but the seed had been sown. He eventually agreed that if God is as great as we claim He is, then we are not likely to understand all there is to know about Him. The young man changed the course of his faith.

The Lesson:

We will not understand everything, and we will not get all the answers; but we will have to keep following God.

What the young man above did not know was that Billy Graham once demanded full understanding of everything. He slowed down his walk with God and watched his faith wither. Finally God explained that Billy’s business was to follow, not to understand God. God once more gave Billy the choice to follow without understanding or to walk away. Of course he chose to follow. That was why he could declare on TV that he did not understand all he believed in.

Similarly, we just won’t get all the answers, but we will keep following. If you are not comfortable with being frail, you are probably still a toddler!


Waiting

One thing most of us find difficult to do is to wait. We jump queues, we push others aside, we throw tantrums, etc, all because we do not like to wait.

Interestingly, we are quick to accuse others of unwillingness to wait. Once I got a ride from a senior colleague in Nigeria’s Capital, Abuja. It was one of those rides you come out of and vow never to allow to happen again. He was such a rough and impatient driver. But all along the about 20 minutes ride, he kept talking about how Nigerians are so impatient on the road and about how everyone was supposed to wait for him to pass before them.

My first real attempt at planting (apart from bean seeds in the glass jar) was to plant yam. I must have been about 4 or 5 years of age. I got the yam set and buried it as expected; I knew it was expected to sprout. The next evening, I went to the location and dug up the seed yam to check if it had started growing. It had not. Cool! So I buried it again. Then the next evening, I went to check it again. It had not. Then the next evening, I dug it up again. Needless to say, the yam never grew. A gracious uncle later explained to me that when you plant, you walk away and wait. You are not expected to keep digging up the seed. Wait!

Have you ever had a little boy give you a toy to fix then come to snatch it from your hands again? Even from childhood, no one wants to wait.

However, life is full of processes with gestation periods. There’s no fast track pregnancy; there’s no way the education of a lifetime could be acquired in a few years; there’s no way a child could grow into adulthood in a few years.

We have to learn to wait since waiting is usually not an option; it is compulsory.

He also said, “This is what the kingdom of God is like. A man scatters seed on the ground. Night and day, whether he sleeps or gets up, the seed sprouts and grows, though he does not know how. All by itself the soil produces grain–first the stalk, then the head, then the full kernel in the head. As soon as the grain is ripe, he puts the sickle to it, because the harvest has come.” Mark 4:26-29

 

 

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CAREER DEVELOPMENT

CAREER DEVELOPMENT

I developed this blog post from a recent presentation of mine. 

First, what is a career?

According to Google, a career is an occupation undertaken for a significant period of a person’s life and with opportunities for progress.

In this definition, we see the importance of a career because we do not want to spend the bulk of our lives doing what we do not like, or stuck at a low level of what we like.

Let’s discuss with a few questions:

HOW DO I CHOOSE MY CAREER?

  1. By looking at your gifts.

Exodus 31:1-5

Then the Lord said to Moses, 2 “See, I have chosen Bezalel son of Uri, the son of Hur, of the tribe of Judah, 3 and I have filled him with the Spirit of God, with wisdom, with understanding, with knowledge and with all kinds of skills— 4 to make artistic designs for work in gold, silver and bronze, 5 to cut and set stones, to work in wood, and to engage in all kinds of crafts.

Bezalel slept and woke up and suddenly found that he was enabled to do things he couldn’t do the previous day.

You must know someone who was born to fix electronics or born to play musical instruments, etc.

A look at your gifts could show you the direction to head.

  1. By looking at your path.

I know a lady who used to play lawn tennis for Nigeria. Later I found that her dad played lawn tennis for Nigeria and trained his children to play tennis right from primary school.

How do you think the Queen of England chose her career? She was simply born into it—her path led her to it!

  1. By desire.

Some people wake up with a compelling desire to do something.

You just keep pushing in that direction. You can’t help yourself. Other people are submitting CVs but you find that you are exploring with farm work, you are spending time painting, you’d rather gather the youths of the community together to teach them Physics and Mathematics, etc. I know a guy who used the engineering principles he was taught in the university to improve on his card making skills.

When we feel this urge, it is best we push for it even if as a side gig.

  1. In many cases, we actually stumble on our careers.

Today, I work as a safety person.

When I worked as a banker, I hated the job. In fact, I believed that every worker hated his job! On the other hand, banking is what some people were born to do!

I read Engineering and though I love agriculture, I couldn’t get much going in that line. I applied to every place I could get a job, etc. So I got the banking job. Then I moved to civil engineering consulting. Then I moved to the manufacturing sector. Then I got into the petroleum sector, etc.

When God was sending Moses to Egypt, HE asked him a question: “What is in your hand?” Exodus 4:2. With that rod in his hand, Moses led the Israelites out of Egypt into the wilderness and eventually, the rod remained in God’s Ark of the Covenant long after Israel entered into the Promised Land.

But this rod had been in Moses’ hand before God called him. So what is in your own hand today?

ANOTHER QUESTION WE ASK IS THIS:

I HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING BUT I CAN’T GET MY CAREER STARTED. WHAT DO I DO?

Once I met a lady who read Broadcasting in the University. She was, however, working as a clerk in the post office. I asked why she wasn’t getting the media industry. She said it would require her to move to the capital city, and she did not want to make that move.

In Nigeria, the options are much fewer. That’s why Engineers are running after bank jobs, and accountants are teaching mathematics in secondary schools. Just grab the one that comes to you. The real issue is that there are not enough jobs to go round. The unemployment rate in Nigeria is put at 13.9%. That means that when 100 students graduate, 14 of them will not get jobs.

What could we do at such a time?

  1. Pray for God’s favour.

How did I get this job of mine?

There was an advert, but I did not believe it would be transparent. And since I didn’t know anyone, I ignored it.

My sister called to ask if I had seen the advert. I told her I wasn’t interested. She decided to apply for me. So I sent her all the requirements by email.

When we got to the test, it was the same test I wrote a month prior at a different job test. Hence, all the mistakes I made the first time, I did not make them the second time.

 There was a little job I had then. My boss suddenly decided to give me an office line so that the customers would still have a valid number to call if I decided to leave the company. One Sunday afternoon after church, my phone battery went flat. Just in an instant, I decided to put my SIM in the office handset since I wasn’t expecting any official call on a Sunday. Almost immediately, a call came in to invite me for the job interview. I was sceptical because it was a Sunday, but they promised to follow up with a letter in a few days. The interview was Tuesday! Unfortunately, I went down with fever but I managed to come to Lagos for the interview. I did not prepare at all! At the reception, there were several other guys who came for the interview. They had several pages of information printed which we all were reading. Finally, I was called in. I answered many questions correctly (because I just read the materials at the reception). The interviewer was so impressed that even the question whose answer I did not know, he kept telling me that he was sure I knew the answer that I had only forgotten!

Summarily, I got the job. There were thousands of others who did not get it—some of them, I know! I know some who did not pass the test stage; I know some who did not pass the interview stage. It’s not because I’m better, it was God’s favour.

  1. Develop yourself.

A friend of mine relocated to London to join her husband. For months, she couldn’t get a job; she was getting frustrated. She would complain and wonder if she shouldn’t just return to Nigeria. One day, I told her that the situation was temporary. She should consider it as a compulsory leave. “Read, take courses, visit friends, etc because when work starts, you will look for this season and you will not find it.”  Today, she’s working and lamenting that she needs a break.

If you can’t get work started, begin to read; take free courses online; attend meetings of relevant professional bodies as a visitor. Everything you learn prepares you for a test, an interview, or a job. These things will set you apart someday.

3. Be patient.

  1. Take the job available while expecting the job you desire.

One day, my salary was N20k. I was marketing water well drilling components. After 6 months on the job, a friend got a job in the telecoms sector, and his starting salary was N120k per month i.e. all the money I earned in 6 months, he earned in one month.

Let’s look at this story closely.

If he gave up in those 5 months when I was working and he was sitting at home, he could have lost out; we need patience.

If I gave up because he got far ahead of me with just one step, I could have given up and left my job, or I could have lost hope and stayed on a little job forever!

I am happy he moved, and I am happy I moved.

The temporary job we get will help us to finance transport, internet expenses etc. that are associated with job applications. It will also provide us with networks that could get us the job we desire.

  1. Find something handy to do.

I have friends who were doing laundry while they were waiting for engineering jobs. I know those who have worked as drivers while waiting for the real job. I know those who do home lessons for secondary school students. The point is this:

Fly if you can, or else run. If you can’t run, walk; if you can’t walk, crawl. But by all means, keep moving!
WHAT QUALITIES SHOULD YOU DEVELOP TO ADVANCE YOUR CAREER?

  1. Youthfulness

Everybody wants to work with people that can be trained…not people that already know everything. That is why you are expected to always be under 26 years of age if you are looking for a job in Nigeria.

However, age is not the key point of youthfulness; it is the openness and willingness to learn. So if you are 30, remain open and willing to learn. If you are 40, remain open and willing to learn. Even beyond 40, you can be open and willing to learn.

Stay hungry.

  1. Be current (be up-to-date)

During my MSc. dissertation, I read extensively but I could not impress my supervisor. The guy just seemed to know everything. Then I took interest in one journal and I became addicted. The more I read, the more I wanted to read. Suddenly, I began to win arguments against my supervisor. He would tell me to use a piece of legislation and I would tell him it was obsolete.  And I would tell him when a new law was published. The first time it happened, I was surprised to see him surprised!

That was what gave me victory—reading technical news that was less than a month old!

In the same vein, be current. Go beyond Microsoft word tables, use Excel. Try your hands on Access. Use cloud applications. Know cutting edge technology. Know things for knowing’s sake; one day they could differentiate you.

  1. Believe in yourself.

Self-esteem is critical for every facet of our lives. How do you see yourself?

One day about 10 years ago, my boss was out of town and he called me to attend a review meeting in the MD’s office. I was just a little boy and my heart skipped a beat. The MD was going to make a presentation and he wanted all departments to hear and critique his presentation.

As he was presenting to us, I saw something strange on his slide: the word GLOCALIZATION. I raised my timid voice and said that there was an error. The word should be GLOBALISATION. The MD looked up, noticed me, and ignored me. He continued his presentation. I thought I was finished! In the next slide he defined Glocalisation as Globalisation + Localisation!

I was terribly ashamed of my ignorance. But guess what? The MD liked me from then on. He was always happy to see me in his meetings. I bet he knew there were many people who thought glocalisation was wrong, but they would rather keep quiet than correct the MD!

You have to believe in yourself; if you have come this far, you can go further!

  1. Overcome insecurity

Don’t consider the progress of others as a threat to you. Be happy to see others succeed. Lend a hand, share a thought. Teach; show the way!

People who hoard knowledge are soon schemed out. The idea is that what you know is not helping anybody anyway, so why not go. But those who keep sharing appear to be indispensable; everybody needs your contribution to succeed. So they will ensure you remain for as long as possible.

Finally, Career is important, but career is not everything. It is important to give what is Caesar’s to Caesar. Don’t advance your career at the expense of family or health or your walk with God.

In his book, WINNING, Jack Welch, the CEO of the 20th Century, says that the success and happiness in the homes of his children have more to do with their mum (his ex-wife) than with him. Make sure you play your part at home.

There is another saying that young men give their health to make money, then later in life they want to spend all their money to get their health back. Why lose the health in the first place??

As we advance in our careers, work-life balance is very important.

I pray that God gives us the grace to do our bit in this world.

Conscience

What role does the conscience play in one’s life?
It is said that feelings are the voice of the body, thoughts are the voice of the mind, while the conscience is the voice of the spirit. (Man is made up of these three components: the body, the mind or soul and the spirit.)
If you have seen the cartoon Pinocchio, the puppet became a real boy; but to be complete, he had to be given a conscience to guide him on what to do / what not to do.
In a similar way, each of us is given a conscience to guide us. We are not to be primarily guided by “what others think or will say.
In the Christians’ Bible, there is an interesting character named Paul. He was charged to court, and he opened his statement by saying that his conscience was free!
 Paul surveyed the members of the council with a steady gaze, and then said his piece: “Friends, I’ve lived with a clear conscience before God all my life, up to this very moment.” That set the Chief Priest Ananias off. He ordered his aides to slap Paul in the face.
Immediately, someone slapped him. Why?
If your conscience says you are a great or liberated person, there is nothing anyone else can do to put you down!
However, we have a responsibility in taking care of the conscience. When the conscience is continually repressed, it goes quiet… sort of scorched. So how do we manage it?
Every one of us gets a nudge from the conscience when we are thinking of, or doing something we should not. Often, we turn away from the nudge and do what we want…until one day, we don’t get nudges anymore on that particular subject. The nudge is the conscience.
To keep the conscience alive and even make it stronger, we need to use our own voices to say what the conscience is telling us:
I should not take office supplies home.
I am not to cheat in examinations.
I am not allowed to take a bribe.
Lending your voice to support your conscience brings the message of the conscience to your mind. And in my little experience, when it gets to the mind, I rarely fail my conscience.
So when your conscience gives you a nudge, say out what your conscience is telling you, then try to cooperate with it.

Psychosomatic

Prof Howard Hendricks told of his behaviour in Primary School. He used to be an unruly pupil. When a new year started, the class teacher called his name and he identified himself. She then said something like this: “I’ve heard that you are the most unruly in this school. I will not have anything like that in my class.” Hearing this, he made up his mind not to disappoint her; he gave her so much trouble that she once had to physically tie him to his seat.

The following year, another teacher took over his class. History began to repeat itself as she called him out and began to speak thus:  “I’ve heard that you are the most unruly in this school but I don’t believe a word of it. I know you will do your best this year and come out as one of the best pupils in this school.” In the same vein, he made up his mind not to disappoint her. Once in that year when he was studying, his dad came to his room and asked if Howard was sick (it was so strange to see him study).

In Mark Fisher’s book The Instant Millionaire, the story is told of a young man who was locked up in a guest house. Suddenly the facsimile began spewing out a message. The message was one, and it was repeated over and over again. The message was that someone was coming to kill him in one hour.

Whoa! He panicked. Picked the telephone, no luck, Banged on the door, no response. He called out from the window, no one noticed him. He watched the clock tick! When the hour was up, the door opened and…

His mentor came in.

He asked why our man was sweaty and frightened. He showed his mentor the message. The mentor pointed out to him that the message was not addressed to him, and it was addressed!

Thoughts and words are real things. Words in the mind affect the body, whether the words are right or wrong. They tend to guide our actions and Inclinations.

Psychosomatic refers to the relationship between the mind and the body. Words and thoughts sit in the mind while their effects show in the body and in the physical. Medicine talks about psychosomatic disorders–conditions of the mind affecting the body; and many people get well when they are administered placebos (empty drugs). Some people will not even get well until they are administered an injection. Others will not see clearly except they wear glasses, even if it’s plain glass.

The Holy Book sums it up this way: “As a man thinks, so is he.”

What do you think?

What do you see?

Think good and speak good so you can experience good.

Complicit

As an African “youth,” the experiences of our countries are completely inconsistent with the capacities which the people doubtlessly possess. While Africans have been portrayed as unenlightened, no one has been able to  replicate several African feats for example, the Terracotta arts. Africans have great capacity.

This capacity is however often repressed as seen, for example, in the repeated destruction of the Library of Alexandria–the first library in the world–by Romans and Arabs amongst others. This destruction repeatedly wiped out centuries of innovation and scientific advancement in Africa.

Furthermore, how is it possible that though Mali is little known today, its 14th century ruler–Mansa Musa–is still regarded as the richest man in contemporary times worth about $400 billion. Where did that capacity go?

How did these great empires disappear?
In my opinion,

1. Africans did/do not trust Africans.

2. Africans trust foreigners.
In fact, if we are made an offer of re-annexation by the Western or Eastern powers, some of us would vote for it showing the strength of the two points above.

As a result of the misplaced trust of our forefathers–trust in the foreigners as against trust in one another, slave trade boomed. Neighbours and cousins were betrayed or sold into slavery by neighbours and cousins. The treatment of slaves in transit was so depraved that several preferred to drown in the Atlantic before boarding the slave ships. Nevertheless about 50% of those who could not commit suicide died in transit. Only 10-20% of slaves taken across the Sahara were believed to have reached Arabia.

The most worrisome bit is the part religion played in slave trade. In today’s Republic of Benin, five nations had slave fortresses: France, England, Portugal, Denmark and Netherlands. The proprietors of these dungeons were diligent enough to construct churches in the dungeons. George Hamilton IV sang of how Africans were enslaved to work in the cotton farms to make white shirts for Europeans to wear to church on Sundays! Western slave trade was abolished in the 1800s after three centuries.

It is interesting that Arabs traded in African slaves so much that the Arabic word for BLACK is said to be synonymous with SLAVE. In fact, the biggest slave rebellion in history was the Zanj Rebellion of black slaves in Iraq in the 800s AD; about 10,000 Africans were killed to suppress the uprising. Slave trade was abolished in Saudi Arabia (let’s assume in the whole of the East) in 1962 after about 14 centuries.

At the end of it all, both the East and the West came to Africa with the offer of religion. How well religion mixed with racial repression!! Mere Religion is doubtlessly complicit.

This write-up is not an attack on religion. Rather it is an encouragement that Africans investigate what they believe and that we ask our Almighty God for personal encounters with Him rather than warring against our fellows based on modern hearsay from distant lands.

Have you encountered the God you claim to serve? How?

Mere religion cannot save neither can it bring peace to the world; everyone of us must have a personal encounter with God.

Consistent

Happy new year!

Standard, most of us [attempt to] develop new habits in January. A man hence subscribed at the Gym as a keep-fit plan for the new year. After about two visits, he got busy. Sometime in February, he showed up again. He asked the manager, “What do you call those of us who pay but do not show up at the gym?” Without batting an eyelid, the Manager responded, “Profit!”

Many of us desire improvement but certainly we do not want to be tagged “profit” by anyone. How do we keep up with our plans?

One point I find very important is from George Clason’s book The Richest Man in Babylon:

Should I say to myself, ‘For a hundred days as I walk across the bridge into the city, I will pick from the road a pebble and cast it into the stream,’ I would do it. If on the seventh day I passed by without remembering, I would not say to myself, Tomorrow I will cast two pebbles which will do as well.’ Instead, I would retrace my steps and cast the pebble. Nor on the twentieth day would I say to myself, ‘Arkad, this is useless. What does it avail you to cast a pebble every day? Throw in a handful and be done with it.’ No, I would not say that nor do it. When I set a task for myself, I complete it. Therefore, I am careful not to start difficult and impractical tasks, because I love leisure.”

Sometimes we set goals too hard for ourselves without allowing ourselves time to grow through the goals.

For example, one who does no exercise wants to jog 1 hour daily simply because it’s a new year?? Or a busy executive wants to spend 1 hour in silence at lunch hour every day… because it’s 2017. In time, they get discouraged and feel it’s unachievable, unrealistic. What if the plan is to start  with 10 minutes a day for 2 months? Ten minutes jogging daily for 2 months; 10 minutes quiet after lunch in the lonely courtyard etc.

Setting achievable targets helps us to celebrate quick wins and to build capacity for growth. It’s better to increase one’s savings by 1% every month till the year ends than to plan to increase it by 12% this year and then jump ship mid-course.

Summary: Count the cost while making your plans; Set small and achievable targets which you can raise with time; and keep at what you choose to do!

Finally, good company makes any journey seem shorter and makes us accountable. Maybe a neighbour wants to jog 10 minutes daily too, or a colleague wants to spend 10 minutes in silence after lunch each workday.

A happy 2017!

 

Change

Change

Change now means different things to different people especially with the ongoing wrenching of political power from established oligarchies as seen in Nigeria, the USA and Gambia.

But while these obvious changes are going on, several other life changing changes are happening which most people do not realise till they have been impacted.

1. Uber vs taxi/car ownership.

In this wise, Uber might as well be a generic name because several such services are now operational.

But suddenly, you don’t have to stand by the road or call the taxi company when you need a cab–and it’s often cheaper. There have been protests in Canada, in India, etc. In some countries like Nigeria, some governments departments are clamping down on Uber drivers.

Well, change as some. Several people are happy for the easy and comfortable cabs, but meant family heads cannot win as much bread as they used to.

I wonder what impact this is having on car dealerships too. I reckon that those who use their cars only in weekends might as well outsource that department.

2. Hotel vs Airbnb

As it has happened to taxis, so it is happening to hotels. Airbnb brings people with free rooms/houses together with those who need such without the elaborateness of hoteliers.

Cheaper, homelier, probably leading to a great change in how hotels are run.

3. Omron/Medics vs Health apps

I had heard about mobile phones that could measure heart rates. But to think that just installing an app on my regular android could measure not just heart rate, but also blood pressure and even spirometrics (lung function).

After I saw this, I looked at my friends big blood pressure manometer and pitied the manufacturer (Omron)–they are in trouble! Then it occurred to me that a BSc in Medical Laboratory may soon be an obsolete course of study, for obvious reasons!

4. iTunes vs Spotify

I am not really an Apple fan. But the concept of iTunes is commendable. I get a lot of free media files that I love. However, iTunes is not really compatible with Androids. Anyway, one day, a few young guys in Sweden developed an app called Spotify. With Spotify, you don’t need to buy and several media files. Just pay a subscription and listen to the media online! I bet Apple was shocked to find themselves expiring so quickly.

But they were quick to respond with Apple Music app, and Google Play Music was quickly tweaked to respond to it.

5. High Street Bookshops vs Amazon

First, the idea was to reduce the time it takes to get books. Just order from home and you get the books! Fine idea. Then I observed that people were selling off their books at giveaway prices. I quickly bought a few. Then I wondered why they were selling–Amazon Kindle reading app!! With it, one could travel with a whole library and even read your books online from location to location!

So who’s impacted? Bookshops, Publishers, Printers, etc!

6. Whatsapp vs Facetime/Duo/BBM

Whatsapp recently launched video calling; and I remembered where there were no DPs! Whatsapp probably contributed to the decline of Blackberry phones! With Whatsapp, Apple’s Facetime and Google’s yet-to-be-popular Duo are probably going to become unnecessary.

What would Apple, Google, RIM, and transport magnates think about Whatsapp? I wonder!

Every change comes with great change (so to speak): loss of jobs, loss of investment…summarily wealth transfer!

Look around and wonder what could be subject to unprecedented change next … and maybe what change could be initiated by you!

But for a start HUDIBIA is about to change the face of medical consultation!

Joyful

In the world you will have tribulation, but be of good cheer for I have overcome the world.

That was an encouragement left us by Jesus Christ as He was preparing to depart the earth. Today, 2000 years after, that sentence is as contemporary as can be!

I’ve wondered how the city of Troy could be destroyed because two men were fighting over a bride. It doesn’t make sense.

I’ve wondered how Adolf Hitler could sway Germany to deal so wickedly with millions of people. Just because Hitler was ruler? It doesn’t make sense.

I’ve wondered how Turks could kill millions of Armenians simply because Ismail Enver Pasha was leader of the nation. The man who killed him (in a time of peace) was allowed to go free, meaning that not everyone was deceived.

I’ve seen that every election brings tears: some, tears of joy and some, tears of bitter sorrow. Yet, Proverbs 16:33 says, “Make your motions and cast your votes, but God has the final say.” If I expect Mr A to win and he does, fine. If he doesn’t, fine still. In reality, we cannot do anything about some things.

Viktor Frankl was in Hitler’s death camp. But he did not die. He had this to say, “Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances.”

So, I’ve decided to be joyful! I’ve decided to remember that time on earth is small beside the real time we are going to spend alive.

My DP will always exude joy. My face will always shine. My mouth will always sing for joy. I invite you to join in.

But the fruit of the Spirit is… Joy.

Learned Humility

The Holy Book says that knowledge puffs up. However, knowledge also appears to be a cure for pride.

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I met a middle level Police woman recently. Through her, I’ve met about 6 other Police officers (Nigerian Police) who are admirable, respectable, well-comported, and forward-looking. It felt unbelievable.

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One of them has read “all the books.” In fact, the next time I see him, I’m going to confirm that we have the same mentor. One is a knowledgeable lawyer. Another is young and beautiful, with nice make-up. One is gallant; he successfully single-handedly put armed robbers to flight after his colleagues fled the heat!

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When I could stomach the glaring disparity anymore, I asked why there was so much humility and friendliness at this level of the Police force as against the abrasion one normally experiences with the Police generality.
Without batting an eyelid, my friend replied, “Knowledge!”
“Knowledge? How?”

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She pointed out that those officers we generally encounter and dislike are usually the most junior in the force and that they have been told how much powers they have as representatives of the Government. The knowledge of this power puffs them up and makes them abrasive.

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However, at her level, they have come to realise that the greater part of life is outside the uniform. Hence, though they are probably more aware of the authority of a Police officer, they have learnt to be first a man or woman, then a Police officer.

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In corroboration, one of her colleagues told of a trip he needed to make for the burial of his dad. Unfortunately, his car could not do the long distance. However, a new civilian friend lent him a car for the trip. He prides himself in the fact that he has never tortured anyone in his long career–not even those he charged to court. He says that everyone cooperates when treated with respect.

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Well, that’s the lesson: more knowledge reveals our ignorance and weakness to us–that should make us more humble.
Looking at the Nigerian Police again, reorientation is ongoing at all levels. And with what I have seen, I am hopeful!

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